Peace and Quiet

August 5, 2010


“The Chair on the Hill” © R.L. Herron

A good friend recently asked me why I write.

I get that a lot. Most likely that’s because I’m always writing. I don’t often think about the “why” of it, so it took me several moments to tell him I really don’t know.

He didn’t seem to think it was much of an answer. Probably because it wasn’t.

Writing has been a part of my personal and professional life for so long, it’s second nature. I’ve written essays, technical abstracts, short stories and poetry.

I created a well-respected web site and forum nearly ten years ago. I’ve edited book-length manuscripts, annual reports, editorial columns and web sites.

Through it all, I found the hardest part of any writing effort is the beginning, but not for the reason you might think.

It’s not so much trying to discover something to write about. Quite the contrary. Once I begin, it is often far more difficult to stop. No, the hardest part is overcoming the inertia of my own procrastination.

I was much better at beginning when I had a deadline to meet.

Knowing someone was waiting for my words to be delivered, particularly when that someone could definitely affect my paycheck, gave a certain impetus to the start of the process.

They tell me I’m supposed to be taking it easy now, sitting back and enjoying the peace and quiet, since there are no deadlines.

The photograph above, taken in my back yard, reminds me a lot of how I feel these days. The scene is idyllic but, as in the picture, my chair is often empty.

Peace and quiet is, by definition, peaceful and quiet. It is also, to say the least, rather boring.

To keep the creative juices flowing, and my sanity intact, I think I need a solid deadline to meet.

Got any?

 

Friends

June 23, 2010


“New Friends” © R.L. Herron

Friends come in all shapes, sizes and genders.

Sometimes, like in the picture above, they even come in the form of different species. All it takes is a modest amount of trust, some empathy and a generous helping of plain old-fashioned respect.

Although I see neighborhood and childhood friends often and enjoy their company immensely, I went to lunch with old friends from work yesterday, something I haven’t done in a while.

It felt good to reconnect and exchange a lot of “what we’re doing now” information. We spent quite a while talking and reminiscing after the actual lunch had come and gone.

After we all said our goodbyes and departed, I had about thirty minutes alone in the car to reflect on our gathering.

I realized what so many people have said over the years was true. When you retire, you don’t miss the work, you miss the camaraderie. You miss the people.

Even if you didn’t always see eye-to-eye, the interaction you once enjoyed with all these individuals was stimulating and special, even if you didn’t realize it at the time.

It’s an odd thing about growing older.

Realization can feel like a blossoming of the brain cells you’ve been trying to build for so long. It isn’t really like that; wisdom doesn’t suddenly blossom. But simple insight sometimes does.

I know, just as everyone does, none of that is true for everyone.

Some people, myself included, have subjects about which they never seem to get any smarter, no matter how long they’ve had time to try, or how often they get to practice.

However, given the right circumstances, people and things can sometimes seem to fall into place in new ways, and it’s funny how often that can feel like wisdom.

The kind that recognizes the words are finally there, not to be ignored, but not necessarily needing to be spoken, either.

I have a lot of faith in my fellow man, perhaps because I’ve always been hopelessly optimistic about just about everything.

Although I think I’ve understood it for a long time, I’m finally beginning to appreciate the cadence, passion and rhythm friends can add to life in general.

It feels good.

 

Challenges

June 14, 2010


“Old Apple Tree” © R.L. Herron

It’s no secret life is full of challenges. We face them every day and, if we’re lucky, they are both modest and easily overcome.

Occasionally, we meet someone for whom the challenges are so severe and seemingly insurmountable that their fortitude in the face of them renews for us the basic definition of perserverance.

In rare instances, we cross paths with someone whose daily challenges almost defy belief.

They endure hardship and pain yet, somehow, maintain a cheerful demeanor. They face their obstacles and make the most of each moment. Despite their afflictions and infirmities they lead happy, full and productive lives.

Some are a lot like the old apple tree pictured above, which has a significant portion of its trunk eaten away, yet still sets out leaves and blossoms, and bears fruit.

People like that continue to contribute, and their contributions amaze us.

They sometimes make us question our own resolve and effort. Perhaps, if we really think about it, they also give us a perfect example of faith.