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January 12, 2010


“Bright Light and Shadows” © R.L. Herron

Just when you think you have things all figured out and your resolutions for the new year are made, something comes along that makes you re-think everything. Not just the resolutions, which are almost always made half in jest each year. But everything.

Tragedy
Yesterday morning was one of those ‘somethings’ here. Three young schoolgirls, all 14 years old and freshmen at a local high school, were killed in an auto accident on the way to school. They were less than a mile from my house.

No one was speeding. No one was drunk. No one was really at fault. The car in which they were riding, doing much less than the speed limit, just hit a patch of glare ice on a curve and careened into the path of a large SUV.

No more algebra tests. No more giggling over the cute boys. No whispers and laughter of any kind. Only silence, and the crunch of ice under the ambulance driver’s feet. All three girls were declared DOA at the local hospital.

Sobering reality, so close to home.

I didn’t know any of them, but I feel the loss. Not in the sense of what their poor parents and relatives are going through. But in knowing that all that potential, all that young optimism, is gone.

Bright light, like the sunlight in the picture above, always has a shadow. If we are fortunate, we don’t ever have to look that closely or that often into those dark places.

The Age Thing

December 30, 2009


“Late Fall Sundown” © R.L. Herron

I read an article today on Ladders.com about the age impression you make when you interview. While age is not supposed to be an issue in hiring practices, we all know it is an issue.

So, what did the article say? Basically, it stressed how you need to learn the art of appearing younger. Not just looking younger, but acting younger, too. It actually listed twenty (yes, 20!) rules (their term, not mine) to take years off your interview image.

To me, most of them were amazingly funny. For instance, take their top, number one rule:

Crest Whitestrips

Honest. If you want to look younger in your interview, whiten your teeth. Forget about grey hair and crows feet around your eyes. Go for white teeth. And smile a lot.

Visit Your Apple Store

Learn the difference between an iPod Classic, iPod Touch and iPod Nano. You don’t have to actually buy or use any of them. Just get the identifiable white headphones to carry around. Perception is apparently everything.

I won’t go through all twenty items, but there are a few more that caught my eye … and tickled my funnybone.

Don’t Talk Starbucks

Or any other coffee place for that matter. If you have that much time to spend at any of them, it apparently screams “unemployed loser.” It’s probably not a good idea if you’ve just whitened your teeth, either.

Hairstyle

This actually made some sense, until they mentioned women plucking or bleaching their facial hair. Moustaches on women is apparently a no-no. It got worse (and funnier) when they told men to clip their nose and ear hair.

Never Talk About the 90s

I suppose it only gets worse if you mention anything you did in the 70s and 80s (or before). As the article pointed out, “nothing at work is groovy, dy-no-mite or far out” any more. Ever.

Makes me almost glad to be semi-retired, taking life easy, taking pictures like the soothing fall shot above and only working part time, on things I really enjoy.

Tubular, man.

 

 

All in the Point of View

June 13, 2009


“Grand River After Dark” © R.L. Herron

I haven’t written much lately and I’ve been remiss in taking pictures, too. I guess I have a lot of other things on my mind. Being retired … early. GM going bankrupt (how will that affect my pension?). The economy.

However, all things considered, I’ve decided to quit worrying about it and get on with my business.

I’ve decided, like the shot above taken near the mouth of the Grand River in Grand Haven, Michigan, life is completely dependent on your point of view.

As I started setting up for the shot it was well after sundown. It seemed considerably darker out than the image you see now.

Most people looked at me as if I had grown an extra appendage when I took out my camera in that dark, set up my tripod on the boardwalk looking out at the lighthouse, and started taking pictures toward the mouth of the river where it empties into Lake Michigan at Grand Haven.

A couple walking by wanted to know if they would interfere with the shot. I told them no, and you can see their ghostly images on the boardwalk.

There were boats coming up the river, too. I imagine they were looking for familiar, safe moorings at which to spend the night. You can’t see them in this time exposure (about 10 seconds), but you can see their running lights.

Just like a lot of things in life, I wasn’t sure how this shot would turn out. Still, I went to a lot of trouble to set up for it and took it anyway, because I wanted to know what would happen.

The image is now one of my favorites. Which makes me realize, all over again, that life is for taking chances, learning from our mistakes and exalting over our triumphs.

Life, the cliche tells us, goes on.

And it’s true. My pension will be whatever it is going to be. GM will become whatever it’s destined to become. I will do whatever I need to do to survive.

In the end, things that matter won’t change very much. I can still count on the love of my family. The world will turn. I will write more stories, take still more pictures and continue to experiment with them both.

In fact, I think I will take the tripod out tomorrow night and set it up, just to see what I might see.